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"The Cross of Same-Sex Attraction is by far the heaviest Cross I carry.
It is also, by far, the most beautiful one."
- Avera Maria Santo

Me, Too | Sexual Abuse & SSA

WARNING: I talk about sexual assault in this piece. Please view at your own discretion. I feel like a lot of girls in my position know...

You're Hurting Me, Fr. James Martin

Please, Fr. James, know that this is not me attacking you. I just want to be open, and share my story and my heart with you. I wanted to...

21 Lessons for 21 Years

1. You're going to die. Start living like it. 2. The mistakes you've made in the past don't define who you are now. 3. If you're dying to...

My Girls & My SSA

I can't believe that I haven't talked about this on the blog yet, but it's definitely something that I want to talk about. Earlier this...

Where Are You?

I've been feeling bad lately. Very bad. Worse than I've felt in a long time. And when I'm faced with any sort of confrontation, the first...

Can I Still Love Who I Want to Love?

Last night was by far one of the hardest nights I've ever experienced in my life. I experienced this intense spiritual desolation, where...

To FOCUS Missionaries with Students with SSA

I love FOCUS. I really do. The university I went to my freshman year had a team of FOCUS Missionaries, and I grew to love them all. I...

My "Coming Out" Story

Some of you know that I have been debating whether or not I should post this story. I’ve decided that I need to, not for myself, but for...

Did Pornography Cause My SSA?

Let me throw a few disclaimers out there before I even get started with this topic. First, I do not believe that pornography is the sole...

I'm on the struggle bus

Disclaimer: I’m about to get really real. These past weeks have not been easy as I am transitioning into college life which is completely...